Reasons not to succeed

Someone whom has a serious problem actually turned down free help from me today. And when I asked why she told me her shrink said she shouldn't do anything about her problem, after all the therapy he is providing is working so well, yet she still has this problem after 3 years of paying this guy weekly. Now normally I would get up on my soap box about Shrinks and how they are robbing people by charging them for not helping them, after all if i took my car in for repair and was told the car wasnt ready to change right now and to bring it back in a week, but they would like full payment now I would have a few choice words. But Instead what got me was she told me without saying was that she didn't want help from someone that wasnt Christian. I have never been one to hide in the broom closet, and I have always been upfront about the things that I believe in. Funny things is is that Hypnotism is a tool that has been used in Christianity for thousands of years. But again I digress from getting on my soap box, The one thing I took from all of this is simply this, no matter the problem people will go to great lengths to avoid getting rid of problems they have allowed themselves to have for most of their lives so great of a length that any reason to hold on to them will do, whether its this breif example of prejudice, or simply losing their car keys for an extra hour or so, causing them to miss their appointment. Real change in any problem is always easy to effect in our lives all we need to really do is to simply decided that change is what we really wan't and let nothing, not even ourselves stand in the way of reaching our fullest potential. As I say to most of my clients when you think of things that may be holding you back, do you truly believe that after thousands of years of evolution and remebering all of the things you have gone through in your life and done well... Is this the finest example of what you are truly capable of doing? Everyone almost always says no. I ask the question for them to answer it for themselves... Because I know no matter the person or circumstance the keys to their happiness are in their hands, and that they have limitless potential only they have forgotten it and need a good reminder of how powerful they really are.